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LET’S START OVER.
Things have changed in my neck of the woods. I’m still adjusting. It’s still unsettling and scary at times. You think everything has been figured out. You’ve been on this path for so long and all of a sudden, you hit a dead end. Maybe the path was becoming more rocky, more difficult to tread, but you march along, sometimes merrily, other times reluctantly. What do you do when you can’t go any further?
Sit and cry.
Bitch and moan.
Forge your own path.
I’m doing all of the above. Some days are better than others. These things take time. It will get better.
Enough with being vague.
Right now, I’m taking the time to focus on myself. I’m doing a 12-week workout program
with some friends, taking my dog for long walks in the woods, and watching a lot of bad TV shows that star good-looking people. Oh, and drinking some pumpkin hot chocolate while snuggling with some cats.
It will get better.
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I said I’d come back on Monday with a few modifications for my spending strike. Granted, it’s 10 PM on Monday night, but it still counts, right?
When I came back from San Diego, I realized I had to re-evaluate a few things. I want 2014 to be a good, fun year, but also want to be successful at paying off my debts.
Here are a few things I will try to do differently:
1. Allot $20 a paycheck to my “fun” money budget. This will be used for movies, dinner, etc. It doesn’t seem like much, but I’d try to refrain from using it. Just because I have $40 in my “fun” money doesn’t mean I have to use it. It doesn’t seem fair for Matt to buy me movie tickets all the time and pay for my dinner.
2. Try to save $10 a paycheck for my trip to San Diego in July. If possible, I’d like to put a bit more away. If I save $10 a check right now, I’ll have about $100 to take with me. Not bad, but a little extra would be a nice cushion. And I’ll definitely be bringing my spending money in cash form because it’s too easy to shop and swipe (my debit card).
3. Try couponing? I’m not sure this will work for me, but I’ll have to look into it. Grocery shopping is already such a chore, but I know it’s where we need a lot of work. Typically, we meal plan by figuring out what we want to eat that week but maybe I’ll try seeing what’s on sale at the grocery stores and work around that. This part may take some time.
4. Take it day by day. I get too anxious thinking about money and I shouldn’t. I always think that if I just had more of it, things would be okay. I need to accept what I have and take responsibility for the position I’m in.
I feel like I had more to add, but I’ve been at work for nearly 14 hours and I am beat. I’ll be back again with a post about my trip to San Diego (even though it seems like old news). G’nite!
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DAY 1: SO FAR SO GOOD.
It’s almost 4:30 PM on the east coast and so far I have not spent one single penny! It also helps a bunch that I haven’t stepped foot outside of my apartment and that I don’t have any money to spend. The real test will be when I get paid next week.
Matt & I had a very low-key new year. We went to see The Hobbit movie and crashed on the couch afterwards. Party animals.
My spending fast success might be a slow start. I’m predicting that I won’t save as much as I anticipate, but at least I do believe there will be some success in the end. I have approximately $10,000 in credit card debt (nearly $100k in student loans…which I hope to tackle before I die). This spending fast is set to conclude at the end of 2014 and if I want to achieve my goal, I’d have to save an average of $850 a month. I can already tell you that is not realistic, BUT, I’ll still try my darn best!
This month I will be flying to San Diego to visit my baby nephew for the first time. I don’t plan to spend money shopping, but I’m going to allow myself money for food only. Food is definitely on my needs list. I’ll be buying my own groceries while I’m there (can’t really mooch off the parents since I’m vegan and they’re not) and will probably go out to eat a couple of times.
Hope everyone had a safe and happy new year!
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